Attracted to Confidence

Here's a written experience- people become attracted to your confidence. It's pretty common to know that people are drawn to ones they find attractive. Think for a second, what makes someone attractive to you? Is it the way that they carry themself? Most of the time, it is. Even when an individual has a horrible personality, they can still be attractive in a way. 

When you become confident in yourself, you start to notice that people are more interested in you. If you are confident in your business, your music, your art, etc, you will receive support. This is because people see credibility in you, for the way they see you compared to the way you portray yourself. When they both match up, it creates opportunity.

Even if the people that notice your confidence don't offer support, they will still give you attention. They tune in to see the things that you do, and how you do them. It will feel like you are always in the spotlight, and that can most definitely become overwhelming. Remember the reason why you are so confident, and that reason should be because you owe it to yourself. Not to please others, and not because someone else gave you a reason to be confident. 

Personally, I have experienced this. I have had people become attracted to the way I present myself, and I can attest, it is a lot to handle! I can say that I have always had a little "clout" as we call it these days, which means popularity. After you truly become confident in yourself and less worried about clarification from others, the popularity can very well go to your head. You know that you are, THAT, so you really don't need anyone around who feels otherwise, even if they do feel the same it's like you already know- and that's where the cockiness can come into play. I have never felt that I was better than anyone else, but I can say that it becomes tempting to think that way when you, as well as everyone else see's the best in you. Just remember to always stay true to yourself, and never tear anyone down in the process of lifting yourself up. Instead, try lifting others to the place where you are. It feels great to love yourself, so help someone else feel good about themself!